Actually I completely agree with you. If someone is a priority simply by default because you need them around, because you can't survive without them, that's just plain not healthy. I believe in actively choosing to make someone a priority because you value their presence in your life. I merely meant that choosing to make someone a priority if they're going to treat you like this is just as unhealthy.
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Date: 2009-06-11 08:21 am (UTC)