Quote of the Day

[victorianpirate]

"Don't make someone a priority if they only make you an option."

This is a well-phrased encapsulation of the main reason I don't date much. I don't mind being an option as long as I know that's where I stand; but when I'm dating someone, they're my priority, and that needs to be reciprocal.

Comments

[shirtlifterbear.livejournal.com]

There's a line in "The Opposite of Sex" that sums it up for me:

"When you enter a room, I should be the first person you look for."

That's it, EXACTLY.

[inkandalchemy.livejournal.com]

YES.

[libraryraven.livejournal.com]

This, and with the caveat of not getting angry if sometimes I am not the first person my partner looks for when they enter a room.